FixedPatchStepper: exchange metadata on the boundary record; _boundaries name

- _exchange_spacing/_exchange_centers (two more per-level lists, only read
  for levels that have a boundary) become _BlockedBoundary.spacing/centers.
- _level_blocks dropped: remap_finest reads each layout's own .block.
- _device_boundaries -> _boundaries: the record holds host geometry, tables,
  Jets and device handles, so 'device' was misleading (the old host-only
  _boundaries list no longer exists). Tests migrated mechanically.
Remaining per-level lists (_layouts, _level_cfgs, _leaf, _state, _boundaries)
are the immutable construction plan, built before the memory preflight and
kept after close; _levels holds device handles only and is cleared on close.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

tests/validation/multigrid/test_block_stepper.py

@@ -240,7 +240,7 @@ class SingleLevelGPU(unittest.TestCase):
         with CudaContext(0) as context:
             for split in SPLITS:
                 with single(context=context, block=split, objects=[circle()]) as backend:
-                    tables = backend._device_boundaries[0].tables
+                    tables = backend._boundaries[0].tables
                     for key, values, dtype in (("q", [l.q for l in links], np.float32),
                                                ("dir", [l.dir for l in links], np.uint8),
                                                ("fallback", [l.fallback for l in links], np.uint8)):